Maybe you
dream
of having a HEALTHY, LIFE-LONG Relationship &
being a conscious Mamma someday,
BUT you feel life is
Chaotic AF
PLUS you've never had good role models
& you're worried about
starting a family in this insane world!
Or
...you have TRAUMA from your past &
not sure how to live a healthy life!
You are not alone!
BTW- I'm NOT trying to convince you to have a family or live a healthy life.
Zero Pressure to work with me!
Soul Waves
Soul Waves
Allow me to share an intriguing analogy...
Imagine
Imagine - you & a friend are going to a dance party together.
To add a unique twist during the party,
I give you both a
challenge...
Same?
Afterwards, you both show me the footage from the SAME party!
Will it seem like you were at the same place though?
NOPE!
Why Not?
Simple answer...
PERSPECTIVE!
Challenge
I ask you to take pictures & video of the amazing people, cool dancing, fun decor, etc.
AND I ask your friend to film & take photos of the annoying guests, sad moments, lame surroundings & so on...
Truth
We all have different perspectives about everyone & everything.
“Our lives are made up of an endless amount of stories.
Some are AMAZING, others not so much….
And of course, we’re all looking for our
Happily Ever After story, right?
Well, I suggest an alternative.”
More about that soon....
~ Dixie Ewing
First, let's consider why everyone's stories are so vastly different from each other.
Another story to contemplate - a romantic couple who completely agree that RESPECT is the foundation of every heathy relationship.
After living with each other for several months, unfortunately they break up!
As she sits in a coffee shop with her friends shortly afterwards, the GF explains "He simply did not RESPECT me! Every time we had a discussion, he would raise his voice, become really loud, swear & speak harshly! That's not respectful!"
Of course her friends agree bc their beliefs are very similar.
And while the BF is hanging out with his buddies, he tells them "She simply did not RESPECT me! Every time we had a discussion, she became totally controlled, almost too polite & dismissive. She would never express her true feelings. That's not respectful!"
Sound familiar?
We've all had misunderstandings like this before!
And yet these aspects that we think are TRUE, actually cloud our ability to see life clearly!
So back to the GPS of Reality
The beliefs that make up our GPS of Reality is not something we can just switch off & on. These beliefs are programmed into our brain by EXPERIENCES we've had throughout our life.
That's where Soul Coaching is profoundly helpful!
Plus after you learn the skills to reprogram your Body, Mind & Soul, you are able to practice on your own anytime, unlike many types of 'talk therapy', that you must continue having sessions indefinitely!
We start with some relaxation techniques such as deep breathing & visualizing.
Next you contemplate a situation or limiting belief that causes you feel triggered by, then I ask introspective questions to help you untangle the stories.
Last we practice some very simple, playful & intuitive dance movements to help release tension, reconnect to our bodies & express our feelings.
This is turn helps us find clarity & create ripple effects in our daily life!
My favorite method to share these techniques, is through Hybrid Coaching - a combination of 1:1 Virtual Calls & On Demand Voice or Text Messaging via platforms such as Telegram or Whatsapp.
You can send messages ANY TIME... Maybe first thing in the morning, or when you're on a lunch break, or the middle of the night!
You might send messages about:
- Feeling excited, sad, angry, elated or anything in between
- Journaling prompts you've written
- Questions or concerns regarding your healing process
- Frustrations & discouragements
- Breakthroughs & transformations, etc.
Obviously I have specific office hours that I reply to your messages (M-F 9am-4pm). Although you can send the messages ANY TIME, ANY DAY, from ANYWHERE & I'll answer ASAP during my allotted time.
Soul Coaching reminds you how to face our fears & create ripple effects of change in your life
We use simple Mindfulness techniques & healing Dance practices (shaking, moving, swaying & grooving - no experience needed) & Feeling our Feelings!
INTEGRATION
Body. Mind. Soul.
You might wonder, how I decide to become a Soul Coach and combine these unique pieces ....
As I previously mentioned, from a very young age, I was taught that questions are knowledge…. And yet the main question I would ask throughout life was “WHY____?”
I came to realize, I didn’t seem to get the answers I was seeking, by merely asking ‘why’.
Then one beautiful autumn day in 2016, when I was trading massage with a fellow LMT, Nancy, I mentioned the recent separation from my husband. (Really, I was complaining & venting that it was all my ex-husband’s fault! LOL)
My friend, Nancy asked the question that would alter my life-compass forever….
"WHO would you be WITHOUT that STORY, Dixie?"
I remember my mind seemed to glitch. With a dumbfounded expression I said “Huh?”
First of many reminders for me....
INNER Work & Play!
Nancy briefly explained about The Work of Byron Katie (thework.com). I had always been interested in Mindfulness & this Work definitely peaked my curiosity.
My whole drive home after this session, I was ultra excited to search & find out more. And for the next few weeks, I was enthralled by this INNER Work!
The more I practiced, the more I felt a clear wave of relief, and it started Ripple Effects in my daily life.
This Inner Work, which I like to call Soul Inquiry, is simply identifying & questioning our stressful, crazy, chaotic thoughts, until they dissolve & our true nature emerges.
AND as I mentioned above, I started dancing when I was 3 years old and continued all through my teens into adulthood - Tap, Ballet, Jazz, Contemporary, social dance, dancing around my house, etc.
One day while I was dancing in my kitchen, I realized how movement & play are so very therapeutic! LIGHT BULB moment.... I HAD to combine these amazing modalities! Inner Work & PLAY!
So Intuitive Dance & Soul Inquiry were fused to create Soul Couching!
Are you READY to experience less stress & more clarity?
Join me in this transformative & FUN process!
TEXT, Call or use the Scheduling Request app
NOW to book your
Soul Coaching session
Thank yourself later ;)
WAVES
WAVES
By the Way
You might notice, I make lots of references to water.
It’s my "happy place", especially the Ocean.
Thus my previous business name
Clear Wave Wellness.
Kind of a sappy, I know, and yet so true to my heart!
BEYOND Explanation
Anyway, back to my story.... In March 2017, I attended The School for The Work of Byron Katie .... I HAVE NO WORDS TO EXPLAIN the MAGNITUDE of the experience from those courses. I then started training with Clarity Coaching Institute ....and of course, all this self-healing was beyond explanation!
New Perspective
The tide just keeps bringing new perspectives of reality, a constant ebb & flow.
Of course, I still have struggles and stress.... The difference is NOW I have the understanding to Inquire, to be Mindful, to Witness, to Notice, to Allow, to PLAY, to DANCE - instead of fight against my thoughts & feelings!
NOW Life feels so much more simple, free & CLEAR ... even DIVORCE, Single Parenting & LIFE in general!
Lighthouse
Allow me to finish with a cheesy analogy... I have created Mamma Soul Ripples as lighthouse on the ocean (of life) - by reminding you to view your CHAOTIC stories more clearly, holding the space for YOU to identify what is true for YOU & rediscovering the course you want to take on your boat, paddle board, swim, etc.
Ultimately, inviting you to see through the storm, via Soul Coaching by asking introspective questions & seeking solutions for your physical, emotional & mental well-being, plus mindfully reminding you to ...
Be. Here. Now!
When you are Present, YOU are more CLEAR, and YOU will pass that on to your family, friends & the world around you!
AND of course we have to add in lots of fun too! Visualization, Moving, Grooving, Dancing & Shaking!
BTW- this is a mutually beneficial process - while guiding you, I also discover new parts of myself and heal right along with you. We're all in the same water, learning to navigate the waves!
So - instead of Happily Ever After….
I’d like to propose
Happily Ever Present!
These are the gifts I’m passionate about sharing with YOU!
Are you ready to rediscover who you are beneath all the chaotic stories?
Your Divine Connection, your True Wisdom, your 'INNER GURU'!?!
Fair warning - it won't necessarily be easy! It will take some hard work AND some serious PLAY too!
I'm ready to Make Some Soul Waves... How about you? :)
